HAPPY HOME RHYTHMS

Happy Sunday! How has your week been?

Something that has made a difference in our family is creating happy home rhythms. I feel we are conditioned in our family life to push through, work ourselves into the ground, fight for what we want or make do with the 'daily grind'!

However, let's create rhythms that contribute to balance, ease, peace and vitality in our homes! We signed up to have fun on the planet and enjoy our life so let's do it now!! 💨💫💛🎆🎉✨

Here are a few examples of rhythms we have in our home:

• My husband goes to the beach 3 mornings a week, where he enjoys a spiritual practice of Qi Gong, meditation, affirmations and time to contemplate.

• A rhythm that we have with our son (4yrs) which is inspired by the Steiner School philosophy is where you have the 'in breath' (connection time) and 'out breath' (independent free play time). So we follow a rhythm of in breath, out breath, in breath and out breath throughout the day.

• I love my yoga practice 4 times a week and go to the beach at least 3 times a week to relax and swim!

Choose one of the rhythms (or come up with your own) below to add or change in your daily life, with the purpose of creating more joy in your week.

• Food / cooking

• Exercise

• Relaxation

• Nature

• Reading

• Making love

• Work

• Children's routines

• Friend time

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Remember, that if you can internally create a rhythm that flows and contributes to ease in your home, then your external world will reflect that. Everything can easily find you - money, friends, inspiration, love, without you having to push 💨💨

Please also know that you are so welcome to email me back if you have any questions or if there is anything I can help you with💚 Here's to creating happy homes! 💕

Have a wonderful week ahead! 😘😘

Sending you all so much love,

Kirsten

P.S. If you would love personal awareness to untangle any deep subconscious patterns and programs and grow your internal strength, please call our office angel, Jane at Step Up Your Life on: 07 5351 1970. Can be done in person, over the phone or via Skype. 🙏💟🎉😍


EASE WITH FOOD

Happy Sunday! How has your week been?

This week it's all about the food! Why explore food? Because when food is simple, easy and taken care of, there is more time for play, creativity, connection and relaxation! 💞☮

I don't know if you're anything like me, but food used to take up a lot of head space... I think I've done food in every possible way! I've been a 'fly by the seat of my pants' kind of gal, eat out all of the time, wing it, Sunday markets, had food delivered weekly and asked my husband to cook all our food!

I used to say to my body, 'Come on body, show me how to connect with my inner food goddess - she's gotta be in there somewhere!'

Finally, my inner food goddess revealed herself! It only took her a few years but awesome that she's here now! 😂 What I'm sharing with you are simple suggestions, but always trust what works for you and your family situation!

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Six Food Tips:

1. Plan your meals for each night of the week, so you know what ingredients to buy. This way you only need to shop once a week.

2. Double the recipe or create larger servings so you can freeze lots of extra meals!

3. Allocate a day/half a day to cooking so food is all organised for meals and lunches.

4. Include easy recipes that require little time to put together eg Acai bowl, yoghurt and fruit, roast vegies etc

5. Eat out once a fortnight - enjoy having a chef cook for you!

6. No cooking on weekends - the leftovers are for the weekend!

Please know that you are so welcome to email me back if you have any questions or if there is anything I can help you with. 💚 Here's to creating Emotionally Happy Homes® from the inside out. 💕

Have a wonderful week ahead! 😘😘

Sending you all so much love,

Kirsten

P.S. If you would love personal awareness to untangle any deep subconscious patterns and programs and self generate feeling in an area of your life, please call our office angel, Jane at Step Up Your Life, Coolum Beach on: 07 5351 1970. Can be done in person, over the phone or via Skype. 🙏💟🎉

EMOTIONALLY HAPPY HOME REMEDY THROUGH THE WINTER!

If you’ve ever lived in a cold country, you’ll know that it takes a lot of resilience to get that body of yours out the door in rain, hail or snow, because let’s be honest adding an additional ten layers of clothing can be quite a workout!

However, it takes a certain level of strength and choice, to get moving and venture out into the refreshing and invigorating -10 degrees temperatures. The alternative is to turn into a gorgeous, cuddly, warm hibernating bear and while it may be appealing to ‘sleep’ through the winter, there is fun to be had on this fabulous planet!

Do you also have days where the external environment may influence your internal? Like it keeps you indoors? Do your thoughts about work, money, relationship, family stress influence how you feel throughout the day? Because let’s face it, we all experience emotional stress at some point! However, those strong, intense winds need not blow us over or break our branches!

So, let’s begin! Let’s get those ten layers of clothing on right now and don’t forget your beanie! We’re going to venture out and that financial, relationship and work drama stress is not going to influence or take over your day! Now it’s going to be really tempting to stay indoors – the worry, stress or drama may feel safe or perhaps you’ve lived in it for so long that it feels normal, but there is something within you that only you control and have a choice with. I know too that the more you do it, it can and will easily and effortlessly transform your vibration!

It is the three- letter word, FUN…! Now I’m not talking about sitting down and watching a comedy movie, I’m talking about tapping into your eccentric, crazy, spontaneous side and unleashing him or her in the home! It only takes 1 minute a day… to step out of the external stress and into the world of your imagination!

Maybe your partner arrives home from work and it’s as if you’re at an airport or restaurant (yes, you managed to score the role in ‘Love Actually’) and haven’t seen him or her for eons – you greet him/her by running, leaping (disclosure: I take no responsibility for any injuries that may be incurred) and smothering him or her in kisses!

If you’re a mum, then you’ve so got this! If you’re like me you’ve mimicked every animal there is to get your divine child to jump in the shower, brush their teeth or jump into bed! I personally like the crocodile, but the monster seems to be coming out a lot more lately! Nothing like a big loud, “RAAAA” at the end of the day! Just in case your crazy child self has been in hiding, here are a few ‘1 minute of fun’ suggestions to do on your own, with your partner or kids in the home:

·       Opera singer – 1 min to really see how powerful your lungs are!

·       Egg and spoon race – a goodie and quickie with your munchkins

·       Dance on the table to your fav song – rock it guy/gal! You may not be 21 anymore, but you still got it!

·       Dance in the rain! Our son loves this one!

·       Pretend it’s your loved one’s birthday all the time! Give small little presents (thank you to our 3 year- old son for the inspiration with this one – he tells me it’s my birthday most days. I have wrapped up presents with sticks, pencils, scissors and he is so excited giving them to me – nothing like having a birthday and not getting a year older!)

·       Break out in song, whenever the feeling finds you!

 

It only takes a minute of your day to remember that you are not your emotional stress, you are the most magnificent, creative, intuitive, gifted being! The world is certainly your stage! No matter what is happening externally in your life, 1 minute of fun can shift your vibration and more importantly create an Emotionally Happy Home® for all that share it!

So, you can now take off all those layers of warmth – thank you for braving the cold… fun is only one choice away! No one can take that away from you!! You may not be able to change the stormy weather conditions right now, but you can create an internal environment in yourself and your home that is light, fun and maybe a little crazy at times!

If you would love to create an Emotionally Happy Home® with your family, please contact: 0466649748 to experience your very own ‘Home Stress Buster’ session!

Kirsten Reck (Emotional Stress Expert)

www.kirstenreck.com

 

BALANCE IN FAMILY

I remember vividly the honest words my husband uttered to me one afternoon after he arrived home with our son.

He shared, “Hon, help me understand your actions when I arrive home with Ethan (our 3-year-old son). You run to him, arms wide open, pick him up, swing him around, kiss his cheeks all over and tell him how much you love him and I receive a quick hello and a peck on the cheek if I’m lucky!”

I went quiet and searched for the answer, but I couldn’t find one! I went to reach for the ‘We’ve been married for 15 years’ answer but that didn’t really suffice! Instead, I said, “Love, from now on I’m going to make a different choice” and so I did! Well maybe not the pick him up and swing him around, but a good smooching, hug and affirming my love for him!

As a parent, I know too well how much we want to give to our partners, children, health, food, career, play, friends, exercise, home, finances and the list goes on! However, there are days where it may feel like it rains too heavily and our roots are soaked or one of our branches breaks from the power of the wind! I’ve found one of the most powerful ways to face the strong winds or the heavy rains is to share and open up! If there is an imbalance, leaning into the winds or the rain, creates the space for it to dissipate, create balance and peace.

I had a client come to see me, with the purpose of creating emotional happiness in herself, with her partner and in her family. Her relationship was rocky with her husband and the emotional stress was in her pituitary gland! We went back to an original time of 30 years and that was when she had a miscarriage and she needed her husband and time off work to process it.

However, she didn’t feel she could open up and ask for the support and for him to be there! She felt on her own back then and now in her relationship! This was what had been dominating their relationship for the last 7 years. Based on the consciousness of her body, we explored how she could now let go of the past and open up with her partner with what she was needing to thrive now!

If there is a space that you feel is dominating or taking over your life like career stress, parental struggles, relationship issues, money stress or health problems, I would so recommend opening up and sharing with your loved ones or the person/people involved. This enables that beautiful body of yours to release any stress in your thyroid gland (throat) and opens up your wisdom to explore solutions, tap into your own feelings and release any stored emotions that the body has been holding onto! It can all be gently, kindly and lovingly released!

And the greatest gift of all, is that opening up with those nearest and dearest enables you to grow strong roots, so that you can grow a resilient trunk and fruit in family and all the spaces that you love!

Sending you all lots of love!

If you would love to create an Emotionally Happy Home® with your family, please contact: 0466649748 to experience your very own ‘Home Stress Buster’ session!

Kirsten Reck (Emotional Stress Expert)

www.kirstenreck.com

CHANGE EQUALS POSSIBILITY

You know those times in your life when you reflect back and think, wow I was so brave; I didn’t put any brakes on what my heart wanted to experience! What experiences were those for you? Seventeen years of age was that for me!

It was the year I made the choice to be an exchange student in Sweden for a year. Sweden for me represented adventure, possibilities, new friendships, exploration and yes, Swedish boys! When I arrived after a long, long flight and stepped outside into –10 degrees temperatures, with an extra 3 layers of clothing, I remember feeling excited about this BIG life change!

So, what happens to that fearlessness with change in our 30’s, 40’s or 50’s? How can we believe that ‘change’ equates to possibility and opportunity? Why aren’t we always actioning a new adventure, just like we may have in our younger years?

The answer: societal conditioning and old, limiting beliefs! Our hearts are whispering or perhaps screaming out for us to follow the path of love and our beliefs, create some pretty imaginative stories like:

“No one else is doing it”, “Life is comfortable so why disrupt it”, “I need security so ‘that’ dream will have to remain hidden in my heart” or “It’s not possible to follow that path with a growing family”.

A client of mine has been facing her own big life change possibility! She yearns for a new career, lifestyle and connection with her boyfriend. Her partner has asked her to come and live with him in the city, however her experience with partnership is what she’s witnessed in her home growing up with her own parents. They separated when she was a toddler and unconsciously she has been creating a space of separation in her own relationship! Her perception from what she has seen is that relationship’s end and separation is the result.

However, we’ve been co-creating new, empowering, uplifting beliefs that partnerships can be long term, create togetherness and yummy, warm, nurturing intimacy. This not only supports her in partnership, but is the ‘wind under her wings’ to believe that it is more than okay to receive support from him as she transitions into a new city and career. She doesn’t have to do it on her own and she can feel wholeheartedly supported by her partner with big life changes!

So often, our bodies can create separation or pull away from love, our heart or even our dreams, but what if we all ‘leaned in’, despite the fear?! What opportunities, magic and possibilities could open up from that space?

Sending you all lots of love as you transition through your own life changes!

If you would love to create an Emotionally Happy Home® with your family, please contact: 0466649748 to experience your very own ‘Home Stress Buster’ session!