RUMBLING WITH EGO IN PARTNERSHIP
/Happy Monday! How has your week been? 💟💞
Do you find yourself having more rumbles with your partner's ego than tumbles in the bedroom? 🤣💨💫 Does it feel like that story you read to your child at bedtime, 'We're Going on a Bear Hunt' where you 'can't go over the mud, you can't go under it, you've gotta go through it?' 🐻🐻 Yep, working with an ego can definitely feel like thick, oozy mud! 💩💩🐾 When you're in it you may not see your own path - the fog can cloud the bridge up ahead. 👁🗨👁🗨
I have certainly had my fair share of pesky rumbles with my partner's ego 🤣😁 (and yes I used to have a very strong ego so I'm no exception 💪), however, breaking through can feel like the sun finally coming out after torrential rain! 🌟⭐☀🌞There's absolute bliss, peace, intimacy and affection when you're not fighting with an ego. 😍🥰😘
Some of the most common patterns I've experienced in my own home with 'ego' as well as helped clients with are:
*Doesn't need any help and believes it's right.
*The outside world (eg finanancial situation, career, health, children's behaviour) 🤑👭 influences how the person feels.
*Operates from fear - fear of being out of control, addressing pain, getting help.💥💥
*Everything is measured, rigid, inflexible. 💨
*There may be a lot of physical pain in their body - unprocessed emotions that are stored in organs glands, body parts etc 🤐😩
*Justifies and defends a lot in communication. 😣😤
I am so grateful to my husband who is happy for me to share an example of how his ego used to surface in our home. That man certainly does rock! 😍🥰
Through awareness we realised his self esteem/ego thrived on challenge/struggle/stress. 💥💨💥 If you're ever in a life or death situation, you definitely want this man by your side! 💟🌈 However, when I was thriving, loving life, high vibration he would pull away or take from the space. He no longer felt valuable or needed. 🌱🌈 A new belief was created where he believed he was worthy to give and receive from a deep, loving, intimate, light and easy partnership. 💖💏💑
The Emotionally Happy Homes® tool I used a lot to navigate through the mud 😊 was 'Trust energy' where I trusted myself to kindly and warmly share what I was seeing. So I would say, 'My love, can you see that you're controlling, in fear, justifying or defending etc right now? What would you love to create or feel in this space?' 😍😘🥰
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Please know that you are so welcome to email me back if you have any questions, feedback or if there is anything I can help you with. 💚 Here's to creating Emotionally Happy Homes® from the inside out. 💕
Sending you all so much love,
Kirsten
P.S. If you would love personal awareness to untangle any deep subconscious patterns and create your own Emotionally Happy Home®, please call our office angel, Jane or Suzy at Step Up Your Life, Coolum Beach on: 07 5351 1970. Can be done in person, over the phone or via Skype. 🙏💟🎉😍