SHARE WHO YOU ARE
/In the old paradigm, one word that is synonymous with parenthood or partnership is 'sacrifice'. ๐จ I know that when I've felt I have to forgo something that I would love or haven't felt free, I've experienced resentment or anger. ๐ฅ Then I've felt guilty experiencing those emotions. โฏ
In these moments it can be easy to forget that you're not your emotions - you're having an experience with them to understand who you are on a deeper level. You are infinite, unique and magnificent! ๐โจ๐ This is where awareness is gold - your emotions are desiring to be understood and it's not always what you think. ๐๐ค They are attempting to open you up to a deeper intelligence, presence or awakening in yourself. ๐คฉ๐๐๐
There is undoubtedly a new way where you can have it all! ๐ From my experience using the Emotionally Happy Homesยฎ systems, the key is knowing and fully accepting who you are and consciously communicating that with your loved one's. ๐ป๐ผ
Everyone can win in a home - it's possible to all live harmoniously in the same orchard even if you're a mango, pear, macadamia or apple tree! ๐น๐๐๐You may just need different nutrients depending on how you naturally thrive in an environment. ๐ฆ๐ป๐ฑ
These are a few examples from our life. ๐ I've explained to our 6 yr old son that the following 'loves' are like sunshine to our leaves or rain nourishing our root systems. It encourages him to also explore who he is through play, his imagination or in nature. For my partner and I to thrive in our environment here are a few ways that we independently support ourselves:
I love healing and contributing awareness so there will be times when I'm texting it, talking to Jules (creator of healing systems), awareness swaps on Mon nights or writing client emails. ๐๐โจ I love a lot of space to myself - swimming is my meditation ๐ฆ and reading for pleasure. ๐๐
Lyell, my partner, loves the beach ๐ฆ so that's where he is every Sunday morning and some mornings before he leaves for his job. Music soothes his soul, so many afternoons are spent singing, song writing and playing his guitar. ๐ธ๐ผ๐ถ
What supports you to be all of who you are? โจ๐๐
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Please know that you are so welcome to email me back if you have any questions, feedback or if there is anything I can help you with. ๐ Here's to creating Emotionally Happy Homesยฎ from the inside out. ๐
Sending you all so much love,
Kirsten
P.S. If you would love personal awareness to support you in connecting deeply to who you are, your heart and higher self, please call our office angels, Jane or Suzy at Step Up Your Life, Coolum Beach on: 07 5351 1970. Can be done via Skype/phone or in person ๐๐๐๐