INTIMACY CONVO'S
/Happy Sunday! How has your week been? ๐๐
Being on the path of growth can feel like one big adventure! ๐๐ช๐ฉ My husband threw me a bit of curve ball last weekend. He returned home after dropping our son off at my parents for the night when he felt to share. He nervously said, 'Honey, I'm not feeling satisfied with how much we make love. I'd love even more intimacy'. ๐๐๐ฅฐ
My internal dialogue was initially - are you serious? ๐จ๐ซโจWow - I'm happy with the frequency. In the past I would've felt a lot of pressure: how am I going to make this happen when I'm not feeling it? โฎโฏ๐ค
However, the beauty of living on an abundant planet as a vibrational being is that you don't need to make anything happen. ๐ป๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฆ Tweaking and fine tuning your vibration is what attracts everything into your world. You then have the gift of free choice to say yes or no when the magic and syncronicities do open up. ๐๐ซโฎ
I said, 'Ok, my love I'm open and willing. ๐๐ I do have a story about how to create that feeling to want to make love even more because from my point of view, I'm really satisfied with how it is'.
In those spaces, I go beyond the physical world and understand that the universe is always listening to my words. ๐ป๐ผ๐ณ So in saying yes, I'm really saying - send me even more pleasure into my life. I'm trusting then that the consciousness of my body is unfolding it for me and that the universe is supporting how it's created. ๐๐๐
Conscious communication is such a big part of partnerships and a glimpse into someone else's soul.๐โฃ Creating a safe space to share, be open and transparent has always had the effect of creating greater intimacy and closeness for us. It has taken a lot of practice!๐๐
When you voice what you want, desire or need (fifth chakra - throat), it also opens up the sixth chakra - your wisdom. Your imagination may organically show you new ways to create that additional pleasure after giving yourself the freedom to express it. ๐๐ซ๐๐ You may also find yourself letting go of what you used to find pleasurable - to create space for even more in your life. ๐๐
My husband suggested 'Jaiya', who has a podcast/ website that was recommended by Tony Robbins. If you're looking to steam things up in the bedroom๐กโก, increase how often you make love or awaken the fire ๐ฅ๐ฅ, you may want to check out her website: www.missjaiya.com
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Please know that you are so welcome to email me back if you have any questions, feedback or if there is anything I can help you with. ๐ Here's to creating Emotionally Happy Homesยฎ from the inside out. ๐
Sending you all so much love,
Kirsten
P.S. If you would love personal awareness to open up and grow your 'feeling self', please call our office angels, Jane or Suzy at Step Up Your Life, Coolum Beach on: 07 5351 1970. Can be done via Skype/phone or in person ๐๐๐๐