ORGANISATION

Who would've thought being organised could give me such a feeling of joy??!! To be honest, I've been a 'fly by the seat of my pants' kind of girl for quite some time but I have to admit that this way of living hadn't been serving me/us since the arrival of our son!! So when my husband had quietly made a comment about my organisational skills (lack of) my ego took over!! In a loud, loud, loud voice in my head it told me to quickly defend and protect myself at all costs!! However, I cast the ego aside, took a deep breath and said, "Okay hunni, I am really willing to hear what it is you're seeing, but more importantly I'm open (deep breath) to receive your ideas on creating a solution. Our home is now organised, which means so much more time for this fiercely independent soul!! I am so grateful that I received the gift of my husband's amazing organisational skills, rather than protect out of fear of criticism!! Sending you all so much love and joy xx

HOLDING SPACE

I am so passionate about creating a happy, healthy and authentic home. I have held the space with my husband for many years now about my desire to create a conscious home, with warm, loving connections and where we are accountable, take responsibility and authentically share. Therefore, I was so inspired the other night, when my husband authentically shared with me (I was in a funky space with technology!), “I know and see you in these spaces. You are pulling on me right now and wanting me to fix this for you”. In the past, I would have defended, however, I was so grateful for his set of eyes on me. My response was, “You are so right. Please hold the belief for me that I can do this and that this laptop is my friend!!” How many times do we automatically step in to fix something with our loved ones, instead of empowering them with our belief, that they have it within themselves to create their own magic?? Joy is in holding the belief for yourself and others that you can create your deepest desires. I can honestly say that we now live in a conscious home; I have held the belief that I could create this and drawn on my fierce, inner strength many times (Just ask my husband:))!! Sending you so much love and joy xx